ENJOYING SEX IN MARRIAGE.

There have been serious misconception about the issue of sex in marriage.Many folks got into marriage without adequate knowledge about this very important subject.
Because of wrong conception or ideology about what this beautiful ,exciting and enjoyable adventure is all about,many marriages are suffering serious set back,even at the verge of breakage. Many spouse in marriage feel sex is dirty,sinful,painful and boring and is only an avenue for procreation,is not tobe given total attention and because of this neglect and high level ignorant many couples,including so called Christians seek sexual satisfaction from their guard,house maids,drivers,collegues in office,even sort for the services of prostitutes.
Ignorant of sex education made a newly wedded couple to have sex in a wrong part of the body instead of the proper hole-vigina and they were busy expecting chilldren until it took the intervention of a marriage counsellor to show them the right part of the body to have sex.This happened when they decided to go for counselling.They never saw the need to read books or get sex education while they were single.

Another young lady who also got married newly,refused the husband to have sex with her because they taught in the church that sex is a sin before God.She even went to their Pastor to report the husband that "bro"has backsliden.The Pastor had to talk to this sister that sex in marriage is licenced by God.That sex out side the confines of marriage is a sin.
Sex is beautiful and must be enjoyed. Sex is ordained by God and must be enjoyed to the fullest within the confines of marriage only. While getting ready to marry is good to read about sex,ask question,get education from marriage counsellors for proper guidance,but you cannot practice sex outside marriage.
Some people say but we know we are getting married,so why don't we start doing it?
You will do it as many times as you want in the confines of marriage and keep getting better because practice makes perfect,when the right time comes.But have it at the back of your mind that you must enjoy sex with your spouse to the fullest without restrictions,conditions and unnecesary excuses.
An advise to the newly weds especially those married as virgins,don't rush your wife since she has not had sexual experience before.Spend time todo what is called foreplay.This is getting into deep romance,caressing of glitoris,fingering her vigina,fondling of her nipples gently,sucking her breast,kissing her tongue to tongue,speaking loving words to her ears,discover more of where she loves most tobe touched and she too must know where her man want her touches.Is a two can play this game fun.You will now discover that her vigina will become wet and easy to penitrate with your penis.Since she is going to have her first penitration of a penis into her vigina. It will be a little bit painful that is why the husband needed to spend quality time to arouse her sexuality so that she does not have a bad impression about sex in her first wedding night which can affect her sexual involvement all through her marital life.There is always a first time.Any body that is good in bed today started it in one day.So be ready to make up your mind to play along and enjoy sex in marriage.
God wired your body for sex.There is a reason why God created those attractive sensitive parts of woman of the woman's body:her breast,the nipples on the breast,her vigina,the glitoris for carressing,the suculent lips for kissing,and also the man's well body build up,the broad chest,the six pack well arranged on the stomach region,the bysect,etc.All these are God's beautiful handywork for His pleasure and our pleasure.

God wired your body for pleasure and relaxation through the avenue of sexual intercourse and enjoyment.Sex is what bonds each other,an expression of love and true fellowship that strengthens relationship.It makes the woman happy and very secured with her man.That is why she can't stand the insult of having another woman enjoy or share her man with her.Sex makes the man very active and vibrant,it make him think sharp,well inspired and motivated to succeed.So you must enjoy sex very well as couple before thinking of procreation.
Woman do enjoy reaching orgasm,this is a peak of satisfaction in women that sends them to sleep long like babies.Satisfaction or reaching orgasm is not only for men after ejaculation you fall off like a bag of onions.Even when you have ejaculated don't stop thrusting your penis inside her vigina till she also screem her last shout of victory,she is not to be used and dumped as if she is just a sex toy only meant to satisfy your sexual urge.
Some men cannot last long in bed,within seconds they have released and the penis goes weak,it makes women angry and feel used.If you are in this kind of predicament seek for solution very fast because this erectile malfunction can cause serious problem.You must be the real man.(call me for solution).
Habits that makes sex uninteresting:dirty body,smelling ampit,unshaved private part,smelling mouth/mouth odour,body odour,unnecesary weight,you lost the shape,dirty underwear,dirty clothes and not looking sex appealing.
Couples must be emotionally matured enough not to indulge in bitterness against each other,using foul language against each other, cursing,habouring unforgiveness,keeping records of each other flaws or wrong doings kills love in marriage,incessant offences and quarrelling that leads to malice and unnecesary fault finding and suspicion,lack of  constant communication in marriage creates suspicion,lack of trust.Always appreciate your spouse,send your spouse a good complimentary message of how good he or she is improving sexually and how you long for more. Admiration should constantly spice up your relationship,word like you look charming and beautiful. Always give  assistance with the house chores, don't insult your spouses family members,lack of care,not showing concern when necessary,are vices that kills sex drive and bondness in marriage.Many marital problems could be traced atimes to lack of sexual relationship.Depriving your spouse of sex is a sin.
Marriage is beautiful you must not endure it but enjoy marriage.

Avoid giving your spouse condition to meet before having sex,you have no such right.Avoid extramarital affairs,one party maybe afraid of contacting disease because of wareward spouse.Have sex very often atleast twice or trice in a week is very healthy and after round of sex,hold each other tight to your body or rob your spouse body and comment on each other's good performance and improvement.
Once in a while travel out with your spouse or send your children away to holiday or weekend so that you can just be alone together.At old age the way you started together you will also end up together so always practice this together thing very often because someday your children will go and also marry and have their homes.
Expect the part two of sex in marriage soon.Hope to get feed back from you.Thanks.Keep getting INSPIRED so that you don't EXPIRE.Am Excellence Sambo,Marriage and Family life couch.+2348096122477