Because of wrong conception or ideology about what this beautiful ,exciting and enjoyable adventure is all about,many marriages are suffering serious set back,even at the verge of breakage. Many spouse in marriage feel sex is dirty,sinful,painful and boring and is only an avenue for procreation,is not tobe given total attention and because of this neglect and high level ignorant many couples,including so called Christians seek sexual satisfaction from their guard,house maids,drivers,collegues in office,even sort for the services of prostitutes.
Ignorant of sex education made a newly wedded couple to have sex in a wrong part of the body instead of the proper hole-vigina and they were busy expecting chilldren until it took the intervention of a marriage counsellor to show them the right part of the body to have sex.This happened when they decided to go for counselling.They never saw the need to read books or get sex education while they were single.
Sex is beautiful and must be enjoyed. Sex is ordained by God and must be enjoyed to the fullest within the confines of marriage only. While getting ready to marry is good to read about sex,ask question,get education from marriage counsellors for proper guidance,but you cannot practice sex outside marriage.
Some people say but we know we are getting married,so why don't we start doing it?
You will do it as many times as you want in the confines of marriage and keep getting better because practice makes perfect,when the right time comes.But have it at the back of your mind that you must enjoy sex with your spouse to the fullest without restrictions,conditions and unnecesary excuses.
An advise to the newly weds especially those married as virgins,don't rush your wife since she has not had sexual experience before.Spend time todo what is called foreplay.This is getting into deep romance,caressing of glitoris,fingering her vigina,fondling of her nipples gently,sucking her breast,kissing her tongue to tongue,speaking loving words to her ears,discover more of where she loves most tobe touched and she too must know where her man want her touches.Is a two can play this game fun.You will now discover that her vigina will become wet and easy to penitrate with your penis.Since she is going to have her first penitration of a penis into her vigina. It will be a little bit painful that is why the husband needed to spend quality time to arouse her sexuality so that she does not have a bad impression about sex in her first wedding night which can affect her sexual involvement all through her marital life.There is always a first time.Any body that is good in bed today started it in one day.So be ready to make up your mind to play along and enjoy sex in marriage.
God wired your body for sex.There is a reason why God created those attractive sensitive parts of woman of the woman's body:her breast,the nipples on the breast,her vigina,the glitoris for carressing,the suculent lips for kissing,and also the man's well body build up,the broad chest,the six pack well arranged on the stomach region,the bysect,etc.All these are God's beautiful handywork for His pleasure and our pleasure.
